Monday, 22 April 2013

6 Ways to Improve Your Search for your soul mate

By Olivia Rostigus


Meeting your future mate can be a daunting task for most of us. Being single can be fun, however, most of us are destined to meet up with Mr. Right. Finding him may not be so easy but it can be done if you make your mind up and set a goal. You need to believe that he is out there and create opportunities that will create that first meeting.

Most of us have very busy lives and work take up most of our time during the week. For those who commute just the travel time alone can eat up at least three hours a day in addition to the hours we already put in at work. This does not leave enough time to pursue a relationship because there just is not enough time in the day to fit more in.

Setting the goal of finding Mr. Right is only one step in the process of finding him. You need to know what you want and how you plan to get it. Once you have a plan, much of the work is done. Taking the actions necessary to putting yourself in that relationship rich environment should be part of that plan.

6 Things to Do to Increase Your Chances of Finding Your Soul Mate

1. Consider moving closer to work

2. Change jobs to cut commuting time down

3. Find a club you really enjoy

4. Have a gathering at your place

5. Take a vacation with people of the same sex

6. Go out with your friends regularly

If you are really intent on finding your soul mate, you need to put yourself out there. It may mean taking a cruise, taking up golf, or learning how to sail. Remember, that for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. Just sitting home won't change a thing except get you more of the same.

Setting your goals

You can either make life happen or it will take over and just happen to you. In order to make life happen, you have to make a plan. This is the number one reason that change never happens. Hope is not a good strategy when it comes to finding a mate for your perfect relationship. Sit down and write out what you really want.

Start with setting your plan for action

Just making a plan is not enough. Taking that first action toward your goal of finding your life mate is a must. You can have all of the plans written down, but in order for momentum to occur, you must do something to get your plan in motion. Set that goal and take the action; any action is better than nothing when looking for a new relationship.

In Conclusion

We have all had the dream of finding the perfect mate. But, a dream will just remain a dream until you get motivated enough to do something about it. It takes an action to get you pointed in the right direction. Once you take that first action, you'll be amazed on how easy it really is to find yourself in a relationship that really works.




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